How To get My Ex Back After A Fight
For years, I was not capable of seeing the complexity of any given situation; I did not know how to take into account the feelings or responses of the people I was so determined to confront.
I think now, if I had been able to approach tough subjects in a different way, I might have avoided quite a number of alienated relationships and stepped on far fewer toes. I would have learned more about building allies and less about making enemies; I might not have wasted years in long, protracted estrangements.
Reconciliation requires both honesty and kindness. Kindness without honesty is not enough, and honesty, without the tempering compassion, is not sufficient either. It is the marriage of the two that makes deep healing possible.
So I decided to confront my ex, not because I wanted to punish him but because I wanted him to build a more meaningful relationship. To my astonishment, the results of his honesty were quite dramatic and went far beyond anything I anticipated when he decide to share his truth.
It’s really important to figure out why you’re confronting someone. I was doing it because I loved my ex but I didn’t have much of him left. I thought there was potential there, and if I wanted to awaken that potential, then the primary thing for me to bring with me was not manifesting my indignation.
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